Isn't it strange how sometimes couples who seem perfect together break up, while couples who seem completely mismatched can last a lifetime? It makes you wonder: is there any rhyme or reason for how relationships turn out? Why Can't I Find A Relationship?

In this video, Relationship Coach, Author and YourTango Expert Shela Dean discusses the warning signs that indicate whether a relationship is destined for long-term success. "What I observed is that there are four main predictors of divorce, all of which have to do with how partners treat each other in good times, and perhaps more importantly, during difficult times," says Shela. Therefore, if you or your spouse if guilty of any of those behaviors, your marriage may be at risk.

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