5. Don't Settle Too Soon
You've met someone great and all of a sudden you're making plans together and wanting to know where you stand. Stand back, stand by, stand down. Your social value is proven when you are in demand, so stay aloof until they ask for more. In the meantime, keep a few people in your funnel and enjoy flirting until that special someone becomes obvious.
6. Try Something Completely Different
The best way to break out of a rut is to try something wildly different. In this case, you might try a new iPhone app called Tingle, which connects you to a mobile singles community just bubbling with cool people. One thing I like about Tingle is that if someone I might be interested in is near me, it messages both of us and offers the chance to meet!
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