From Defensive & Date-less to Engaged & Ecstatic

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40-something *Julia came to me as a beautiful, yet emotionally defensive actress who couldn't attract a decent date let alone a serious contender for a relationship. We had (3) 1hr sessions over a period of 4 weeks during which time we traced the source of her fear, anger and defensiveness back to childhood.

We explored her deepest interests and desires, redefined her beliefs and desires honestly, and pinpointed where and how modern day concepts of female empowerment and independence were dis-empowering her relationships. We then created a straightforward strategy to attract what she wanted as well as detect when old thoughts and fears resurfaced so they couldn't sabotage her efforts. By learning how to put herself first with awareness and accountability, she started directing her results with power.

Within three months *Julia atttracted a wonderful partner.

On December 21, 2011 —less than two years later I received this email along with a photograhp of her new engagement ring!

"engaged!! today !! thankyou for everything! I love you coach!"

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