Do you have a long list of requirements for your "ideal match"? Are you struggling to find your soulmate? Maybe it's time for some inner reflection! Find Your Soulmate: Love Manifestation 101
In this video, YourTango expert and dating coach, Kat Knecht explains that finding your soulmate is about knowing yourself. To get two peas in a pod, you need to know if you're more of a lima bean or black eyed pea.

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