In a perfect world, the "bad guys" wouldn't have to be told, "Don't use the good hand towels," even though no one can tell the difference between any hand towels. But it's an imperfect world and we can't always be nice. Unfortunately, torture and nagging are not the American way. Not in my America, any way.
How do you ask someone to do something without nagging? Is Kate Gosselin the Abu Ghraib of reality TV?