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Am I Not Thirsty Enough!!!

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Am I Not Thirsty Enough!!!
This post is about Woman Nation and what their willing to do for a man.

Well believe it or not it’s extremely hard for me to find a mate of substance to date. I know what your saying, not you #FirstLady, it's sad but it's the truth. Don’t be foolish and think that I don't get attention or that men don't try. It’s important that we pay close attention to the word substance. The reoccurring topic lately amongst me and girlfriends, is where do you find a man of substance. This past year I’ve done some in field investigation and have been to the club more than anyone I know. I’m here to testify that men of substance are not in any club. That’s not to say that smart and intelligent men that come from great families aren’t in the club. There’s just something to be said about the club atmosphere that will make an intelligent man walk up to a #FirstLady and say “Can I touch your booty”. Being a single 2* something yr old female and no kids, why wasn’t I all over him. I mean don’t I hear that clock (tic tock, tic tock). This makes me think..... Am I not thirsty Enough!!!

So this year has been a learning experience on what’s going on with #WomanNation. Is the ratio of 8:1 for woman to men causing majority of woman and men to lose there damn mind!! I mean the Hobbit that asked to touch my but is educated and owns his own business and has great insight on life. With all that said, it’s clear he loses his damn mind when he’s in the club. Men are well aware of the fact that on any giving club night they have the potential of pulling at least five numbers. So to the Hobbit and Mr 8:1, they most definitely feel like they are a catch and that any woman that passes on them, it’s their lost. My response to the Hobbit was nothing to him because men are aware that what one female won’t do the next one will. So most men will #K.I.M (keep it moving).

What exactly will I do to keep a man from #K.I.M it. Is it not scary enough for me to know that the next #thirsty broad will go home with him after the club. As woman it seems that we are willing to give up are pride and what we believe in, too compete. Why else are woman ok with entering the casual life style or just accepting disrespect. There’s all these rules about going to the club with small numbers or making sure chicks your with aren’t too attractive because it decreases your odds even more. I have witness woman walking in a room and turning their nose up at other nice looking females because she might be competition. I have seen females not speak to one another because they want it to be known that they are the #baddest broad in the club. Let’s not forget the woman willing to step on another female and it doesn’t matter if their friends.