10. Go on a hot date… with yourself. Independence is sexy, period. So whether you're officially attached or a total free agent, treat yourself to a hot date with you. Hit up a new restaurant and order something delicious. Slide into an actual conversation with your server instead of a ten-word exchange about the menu. Bring a great book and pause between chapters to absorb the sights, sounds and quirks of where you are. There's something mysterious — and therefore hot — about going on a little adventure and savoring the fact that the world is full of possibilities.
11. Touch. Read a book and do research on massage, then if you can, share some with a partner. Practice and you'll get better. Feeling sexy isn't just about what you look like, no matter how much our culture is glued to that belief. It also lies in confidence born of what skills you can bring to the bedroom. If you know yourself as sensuously capable, then you will exude that confidence naturally—in and out of the bedroom. The Beginner's Guide To Sensual Massage
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12. Remember that resolve, determination and spirit are sexy. Some tips are fast changers. However, as much as this stings to hear it, most major change doesn't happen immediately. Take up an exercise plan for targeting some parts of your body you know you want changed, but along the way, be thankful for what parts are hot and be happy for your blessings and strengths. Don't get discouraged when you don't see results overnight, remember that the path is the result—and investing in your health and well-being in a positive way is never going to disappoint.