What Guys Think Links: What I Can Tell By The Way You Walk

I hope the lot of you aren't melting. I'm doing my best to stay cool, same as any other day. Here are some reasonable, hilarious and decent things that men had to say about relationships this week.

First, our good friend and YourTango Expert Charles J Orlando has some dynamite bon mots on Facebook. Here's a tasteroo:"“If you're constantly wondering where your relationship stands... you already have your answer. The REAL question is: What are you still doing in it, settling for the crumbs of love? Never settle for second-best."

Over at College Candy, their resident dude lists 12 reasons why he wishes he was a lady. A blog like this may be the 2011 version of playing shirtless guitar.

Another perk of being a woman is possibility of multiple orgasms. Very Smart Brothas, in conjunction with this study: Your Walk Reveals How You Orgasm , has signs that a woman is capable of a vaginal orgasm. Could be a chicken or egg thing but it's good to know.

Speaking of getting the good stuff, Em & Lo (EmAndLo.com) ask their man panel if the average guy is amenable to RECEIVING anal play. Did I say "good stuff"? I meant the opposite.

Some straight fire from Good Men Project about getting over the heartbreak of ending an online-only relationship. We all miss Everquest, mane.

Total pallet cleanser. Modern Man has advice on how to (almost) always win at Rock-Paper-Scissors. Strip R-P-S, anyone?

My bud Simone Grant has the great stand up Christian Polanco guest blog for her and he tells a funny story about when he learned he had to stop being too nice to ladies and stop being a doormat. They may make a movie out of this.

Bad Online Dates asks their resident bartender about what dudes think about getting hit on by a gay man. Every guy has three stories they're very secretly proud of: getting arrested, getting drunk somewhere foreign and getting hit on by another fella.

My homey Jack From BKLN has a very thoughtful piece about the legalization about prostitution. Thoughtful and really begs the question: what are we so afraid of?

And now to Mr. Weiner, Dr. Daniel Amen, the famed neuroscientist, gives an amazingly articulate rationale why powerful men diddle outside of marriage from a brain physiology standpoint. Friggin' fascinating stuff. Straight from Huffington Post.