From Feeling Guilty to Interconnectedness and Joy

"I began talking to Svetlana because I had a lot of issues built up inside of me to the point that I began to feel intoxicated with them. My life had taken some sharp turns in the past couple of years, and by trying to be strong, I was suppressing feelings that I had to simply get rid of.

When I had my session with Lana, I understood just how seriously mind rules over matter. Lana was asking me a lot of really important questions that I was postponing asking myself. Every time I thought I had a strong intention and I could handle anything and was able to improve my situation, my body responded with pain and uncomfortable feeling, indicating that there was an inner conflict that stopped me from manifesting my intent.

When we looked closer to what was causing this weak support from my body, I realized how guilty I felt about many things that happened in the past and how this feeling was making me powerless in my present.Your mind can hold you in the past and rule your life from the place of fear and guilt or you can make a change in your perception and let the past be in a past.

Lana helped me see how what happened in the past and my present situation were the same aspects of my live, interconnected and inseparable. I trully beliewed that my old relationship was perceived as negative and it affected tmy father's health. I could not form a healthy loving relationship with this heavy guil. I felt I needed to untangle these aspects in my life and this became the premise of our  sessions.

With Lana's help, I began to quickly resolve physical and emotional problems that I experienced in the present time by letting go the charge that was connected to my past decisions.My sessions with Lana allowed me to negate certain guilt and fear energy that was harmful to my body and mind, forgive myself for making decisions that did not support me and my relationships with the people I respected and loved and come back to the present moment.

As people, we have this belief that if something bad happens, it is our fault and we continuously connect to these depressing thoughts. It creates a vicious cycle and almost an addiction to sadness, which is why people often have such a hard time getting over things. I hesitated to let go of these issues as well.

When I worked on myself with the help of Lana’s coaching, I realized that I don't have to give in to anything that does not make me happy. I can consciously chose relationships that feed the positive energy to my body until only positive energy is present in my relationships. It was such an organic and realistic approach! It really helped me pull myself out of the deep despair and low emotional states into more positive outlook and independence.

I learned to choose people and experiences that support me and forgive myself for limiting choices I still make sometimes. I finally met a person who deeply cares for me and we gave a birth to a beautiful baby boy. I am finding more joy in my life now and I am learning to be true to myself and follow my heart desires.

Thank you!”
Tanya Fingerov,

Jewerly Designer, Los Angeles, CA