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How To Turn Date Night Into Incredibly Hot Sex

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80% say going on a date can rekindle passion. How to transition from date night into hot sex.

"How To Turn Date Night Into Incredibly Hot Sex" is sponsored by Zestra.

According to the results of YourTango's Power of Attraction survey, 80% of you believe that "date night" is the magic spark that will bring the fire back to your relationship—hey, it's how you first seduced him!

But while a date usually guarantees you'll get a delicious dinner, things can get a whole lot spicier when you become the main dish. Transition date night into unforgettable passion with these sexy tips, guaranteed to turn any old dinner-and-a-movie into lip-biting, sheet-grabbing, toe-curling, mind-blowing sex!

Tip #1: Prepare... your mind, your bedroom, your body and your man.

Getting yourself ready for a sexy date night should start as soon as you wake up in the morning. Some simple daytime preparation can go a long, very sexy way later that night. First things first: Prepare your mind. Throughout the day, Dr. Diana Kirshner, YourTango Expert and author of the bestselling book Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor's Guide to Lasting Love, suggests taking the time to close your eyes and imagine your favorite sexual fantasy. "Imagine your partner in that fantasy," she says. "It's a great way to heat yourself up."

Now that you're starting to get into the groove, prepare your bedroom to set the mood later on. Placing candles around the room is a sexy-time classic that no Urban Outfitters lamp will ever beat. Everyone looks their best in warm, romantic light. Put some massage oil or lotion next to the bed so you can easily seduce him with your touch. And don't forget to have your favorite lube, condoms or "toys" nearby! Because, let's face it, once you get started, you're not going to want to stop.