my boyfriend asked for space/break and we haven't spoken in 2 wks


i miss him badly and would like to know if he is coming back to our relationship

my boyfriend of 8+ years told me 3 weeks ago that he wanted a break/space and i broke down and told him to take me back, i even begged him. in that first week i contacted him trying to get him back and to understand why. but he just said no. now he contacted me 13 days ago and we talked for a bit through text, but since then he hasnt contacted me [and neither have i] but i feel like im dying without him and today is our 8 year 6 month anniversary and i have no clue what to do, till now he hasnt contacted me. i miss him so much and wonder if he'll even be back. to me the break came out of left field and did not expect it at all. i do still live my life but i keep a bit of a look out hoping he shows up one day, i do go out a little with my mom but i truly dont do much and just miss him with all my heart. with this whole 'break' thing i realized that he is the one im in love with, something that got more obvious when this happened, because i already knew i loved him, but i did not know how much till now. i wonder if i should contact him because i dont want to push him away and if anything i want him to come back soon. can you guys please help me?


Expert advice

Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
It seems like you can't do anything right.