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Sandra Bullock Is Not Happy About Jesse James' Tell-All Book

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The Oscar-winning actress told Jesse she can't be friends anymore, even for the sake of the kids.

So, Jesse James is writing a tell-all book called American Outlaw, which may in fact detail his many affairs during his marriage to Sandra Bullock. And Sandy? Not happy about it. At all.

Sounds like someone really needs to break up with her ex.

According to ShowbizSpy, Sandra was blindsided by the memoir: "He didn't warn her about the book at all—she had no idea he was even considering it until after he'd signed the contract," a source revealed. Sandra Bullock & Jesse James' Love Timeline

Even after the Oscar-winning actress split from Jesse, after word of his affair with Michelle "Bombshell" McGee leaked out, Sandra was committed to staying friends with her former husband. She was an extremely-involved stepmother to his three kids, 16-year old Chandler, 13-year-old Jesse Jr., and especially six-year-old Sunny, and wanted to remain a part of their lives. However, Sandy feels like Jesse has gone too far with this move.

"She's devastated," the source said. "Sandra's told Jesse they can no longer be friends—even for the kids' sake. She decided she has to put herself first. She couldn't deal with him anymore." A Good Step-Mom: Sandra Bullock Has Jesse's Kids

If Jesse is telling the truth, we can see why Sandra would be upset. According to him, his book is going to lay it all out there for the world to see. He doesn't plan on holding back.

"I've lived a pretty crazy life," Jesse said. "My life has been defined by many things, and I just wanted the memoir to be a good story. People claim to know everything about me, when they actually know nothing. But once you read this, you will know everything—the whole story, right here."

This seems like another betrayal for Sandra, as we know she wouldn't want to whole infidelity story to be on display in the public... again.