6. Be open about your desires. A committed relationship is the one place you should be able to share your deepest secrets without fear of judgment or embarrassment. Have open conversations with your guy about any hot fantasies, let him do the same, then work together on making them happen. That way, you'll both be satisfied between the sheets. 3 Steps To Sharing Sexual Fantasies With Your Partner
7. Have maintenance sex. It may sound less than appealing to get busy after a long day at work while the TV screams in the background, but frequent, run-of-the-mill sex is still that—sex. And it's an important element for keeping the love alive. As Dr. Gina Ogden said: "This is the kind of sex that connects you and reaffirms your bond as a couple." And that's what you have to do, every day, to remain in love and in lust.