The 3 Best Orgasmic Sex Positions To Put You Over The EDGE

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These will get you there, ladies.

Having an orgasm has not always been an easy task for me, as well as other women, to accomplish. Often, I would have sex and never even come close to reaching a climax. I realized that I had to be totally comfortable with myself, my man and have my mind right to climax during sex.

It took a lot of trial and error, but once we got there, was it great. I've decided to share some of the sex positions that have consistently allowed me to reach orgasm. Remember that every woman is different and if you aren’t relaxed, comfortable and aroused, it won’t matter what position you do it in, your chances of reaching an orgasm will be slim.

So, before you start, be sure to get your mind right with these pre-orgasmic readiness steps:

  • Relax.
  • Clear your mind of all negative sexual thought.
  • Be comfortable with and love your body (poor body perception is a huge negative factor inhibiting orgasm).
  • Know that you will have an orgasm.
  • Make sure you are totally aroused (if you aren’t aroused it will take you much longer to reach orgasm).

With that in mind, here are 3 of the best sex positions to give you that mind-blowing orgasm.

1. Standing Rear Entry

This is position is great due to the angle of your man; he can easily stimulate your G-spot and it leaves your hands free to stimulate your C-spot or clitoris. Double stimulation allows for very intense orgasms. Try variations of this position to see which ones work best for you:

  • Up on all fours.
  • Put your upper body down on the bed leaving your bottom in the air.
  • Lift your upper body putting your hands on the headboard or wall.
  • Your man standing behind you on the floor, while you kneel off the edge of the bed.
  • Lay face down on the bed, tilt your hips so your bottom is up in the air and use a pillow under your hips if you are easily fatigued. You can try this position with your man's legs either inside or outside of your legs.

2. Reverse Cowboy or Cowgirl

This is a position that puts us in control. We can lean back or forward, allowing us to determine the right angle. We can go as fast or as slow as we want. If you want him to stimulate your clitoris he can. But only you know the intensity and rhythm you need at the right moment, so although he may want to help, I suggest you do it yourself.

You can also practice your Kegel exercises to increase your pleasure. He can also assist you with this sex position by helping you lift your body on the up and down action by placing his hands on your bottom and lifting.

3. The Tantric Raised Feet Position

This is a variation of the missionary position. In this position, your hips are lifted and resting on your man's thighs or against his pelvis, as he kneels in front of you. This is my favorite because I get the best G-spot stimulation in this angle, I can stimulate my C-spot, and best of all, I can totally focus on receiving pleasure and enjoying what I'm feeling.

I can control the angle by tilting my hips up or down to ensure my G-spot is stimulated. All I can say is this position is the bomb. I'm multi-orgasmic so this position allows me to reserve my energy and orgasm until I can’t take it anymore.

You can do variations of this position:

  • Your legs resting on your man's shoulders.
  • Your legs resting around his hips.
  • Your legs over your head with your knees on your shoulders.
  • Both legs either on his left or right shoulder.
  • Your legs in the air and your ankles crossed.

The sex positions above are the ones that I enjoy the most and bring me to orgasm the easiest. I suggest you experiment and find the positions that work for you and your partner.

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