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Too many dads, not enough fathers.

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Too many dads, not enough fathers.
Anybody can be a dad now days...

Lets just face facts. There are to many dads and not enough fathers. Anybody body can just lay down with a female& get her pregnant. It takes a real man to stand by that child and raise it correctly. Look at my friends , family most of them dont have a dad in there life or maybe there parents divorced. Its really sad how no male wants to stand up and be there for there child.

 Well it don't take no magic freako to know, i dont have a father in my life. Where is my dad you ask? In new york. With his new wife and my stepsister!! It dont bother me that he got remarried or the fact that him and my mother got a divorce. What really bugg me is now after 17 years of my life, he wants to be a "good father " why do he choose to wait until im 18 to try to be invalid in my life. Even growing up with him in the same household, he didnt know anything about me. He thinks he know stuff about me, well he dont. When ever he calls its the same oh thing. All he cares about is college and the field im going to study. i don't understand how somebody can be so many states over,and still manage to try to control a person. honestly i hate talking to him. i do my best to devoid his calls. if i do pick up i want to talk to everybody but him. ughhh dads make me sick.
 Its not just my father we talking about. Dre's dad is like that as well. Last time he talk to his dad he was in the 7 the grade. Even then his dad ain't want to speak to him. He wanted to talk to his older brother Eddie. Only thing his father knows about him is that Dre is a rapper and singer. Only reason his dad was obsessed on talking to his brother because his brother had a baby on the way. Dre thought only way he could get his dad to talk to him was to get another girl pregnant. Geezzz la Luis it has been 6 years since he talked to his dad. His dad has always been in and out of jail. Everything that his father done, Dre learned to never do. That can explain why he is so attached to his mother. Lol he such a mama's boy. Its cute,but he is also attached to his grandma. Awhhh that's so cute. I can see why mothers are stepping up. Moms are playing both the mom& dad roll. I got to give them a hand.
 

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