If you are in a long distance relationship, it can be difficult at times. You miss your partner and wish he or she could be with you more. From an intimacy stand point, you may long for his or her touch and feel lonely at times. It can be sexually frustrating, and you may question if the distance can be too much for you from an emotional and physical standpoint.
If you have debated on purchasing a sex toy for your long distance partner, the most important thing is to understand that everyone is different. Some individuals are very open to using sex toys themselves or within their relationships. Other individuals may be uncomfortable about using a sex toy at all. Bring up the idea of using a sex toy with him or her and see how he or she reacts to the topic. In addition, make sure you are at the level in your relationship where you feel comfortable and serious enough with him or her to take it to the next level.
Let your long distance partner know how much you miss him or her when you are a part. Ask him or her how he or she would feel about using a sex toy. Let him or her know that you wanted to add a little extra erotic fun to the relationship, and were thinking of sending him or her a sex toy. If he or she seems completely game with the idea, then, it's shopping time. Maybe he or she would like to put in some input as to what kind of sex toy he or she would be interested in. You want to make sure that your partner is completely comfortable with the type of sex toy that you buy. For the females, there are kits such as the Male Your Own Dildo Kit that allows you to create a replica of your man's penis. Or, she may prefer a vibrator as opposed to a non vibrating dildo as well. For the male partner, there are realistic vaginas that are molded from adult stars, or you can get him a masturbation sleeve that is smaller and easier to store away. There are a number of options.
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