She knows that in order to find love, her client must be a healthy-minded person. They have to be in a place where they are self-aware and know that what they’ve been doing isn’t working. This kind of acknowledgement tends to set the mind for positive experiences, whether they’re an everyday person or a celebrity. For example, a radiant and successful woman with everything going for her, like Jennifer Aniston, will still have problems keeping a man if she doesn’t have this mind set.
In fact, speaking of Aniston, Rosenberg says, “I do have clients that know her and say she’s lovely. However, there is a very apparent trend in her love life. She is darling, and there is so much to like about her, but there is something going on with her, something that she needs to pay attention to. She needs to get down to the reality of what it is that she is doing. What is surfacing in her relationships after a certain level of intimacy, and what unhealthy pattern she keeps accepting into her life? I really think that’s what it comes down to for her.”
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When it comes to celebrity relationships, media, and technology, this can be a dangerous mix. Rosenberg says that there are people, like Kim Kardashian, who are being followed around by a camera and dealing with sensationalism in every aspect of their relationships. Then on a real-world level, we have people using Facebook, Twitter and other social networking platforms to post every detail of their love life, from happy pictures of the good times to angry rants detailing a harsh fight.
“The reality is that they’re publicizing who they are, as well as their personal relationships, and when you act this way, people are going to look at you and scrutinize you – the good and the bad. As a couple, you need to be a team and understand that all that matters is what you and your partner know to be the truth.”
Rosenberg then adds, “If there is something that is triggering a pain or disconnect from the outside based on what you read or see, that’s something that you have to look within to understand. Couples need to be grounded in what love is really meant to be and not the attention it can bring.”
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Another fascinating component of Rosenberg’s business is what she refers to as a “life remodel.” This particular component caters to – but is not limited to – people in Maria Shriver’s position. For people who have been cheated on and are struggling with a messy divorce, Rosenberg can bring a person back from the ashes and help them move on. “In a case like Maria’s, there are always signs. We always have pieces of life poking at us with the truth, and it is up to us whether or not we want to see it.”