Kailen Rosenberg is a nationally respected Elite Matchmaker, who has helped many singles and couples find and restore love throughout the years, including celebrities, CEO’s and public figures. She has a gift for bringing you back to the person you really are deep-down inside and helping you to shed the hard-coated exterior that society has forced you to wear. Rosenberg is best described as a “love architect.”
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What’s a love architect? It’s someone who comes into a person’s love life, whether they are married or single, to help find cracks in their foundation (which is where the idea of ‘architect’ came from) that are in need of strengthening and repair.
“Whether you look at it spiritually or psychologically, I’m helping to mend areas that need truth and awakening. I come in, find those areas that need work and then I help my clients come to their own truth. They discover which parts haven’t been solid and built in a healthy way. Once that’s done, they can finally have the love that they’ve always wanted and deserve,” says Rosenberg.
As proven by the many romance-focused reality shows of today, singles are finding it harder than ever to find a partner. Rosenberg can attest to that, having served as a matchmaker and relationship expert on season three of The Bachelor. “I worked behind-the-scenes in regards to seeking out the right bachelorettes for the show. I actually interviewed Bob the Bachelor,” she reveals.
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Reality television or not, Rosenberg can shine a light in the dark corners of an individual’s personality and help them truly find what – and who – they are looking for. She explains, “When most people come to me, they look pretty darn amazing in person and on paper. They believe that they like who they are, and in many ways, when we’re talking about the ego, they do like who they are.” Rosenberg expands this thought and says, “However, they come to me believing that the issue isn’t really about them, but rather about finding the right person. During my beginning assessment process, people begin to realize that they never knew who they were, and that they became the person they were told to be or taught to be by society. Therefore, they’re not only attracted to the wrong people, but also attracting the wrong people.”
With this thought in mind, Rosenberg’s first priority is to teach people who they truly are. As she says, “After I finally introduce and match my client with their true self, then we can get down to who this person should be dating. We’ve put over 200 marriages together and haven’t had one divorce, which is just crazy and unheard of. I think it’s because these people are connecting on a genuine level that most people never have the opportunity to experience.”
Revealing how important her work is to her, Rosenberg gushes from the other end of the phone, “It’s much more than match-making to me.”