5. Give the ring back. If you're the one doing the ditching, it's only right that you return the ring. Engagement rings can cost small fortunes, so if you are advocating the split then you also have to deal with the consequences. We know it's pretty and sparkly and all perfect-looking, but do the right thing and give it back. Who Invented Engagement Rings, Anyway?
Now that you know what to do, it's time for the hard part. Keep these tips in mind and remember that despite how it feels now, it really is for the best. In the long run, you'll both win.