It’s joked about by most men that they can’t understand women, but if
your girlfriend broke up with you and you want to get her back you
need to learn what she needs in a relationship.
Show her appreciation. Women have the rap of being
emotional beings. Possibly partly because of this they are nurturers
and want to take care of people. Sometimes they feel that their man is
like a child who needs taking care of. Likely, your girlfriend was
willing to pay special attention to your needs and desires. If you
didn’t notice or praise her for all the little things that she did for
you she can start to feel unappreciated. This may make a girl look for a
guy who will appreciate her.
Keep it interesting. What girl doesn’t like
surprises? She wants her man to be spontaneous and romantic and do
things without asking, like sweeping her off for a few days away alone
together. Be her special knight who sweeps her off her feet by making
her feel special,like sending flowers to her at work.
Don’t forget the details. Women notice the details. Loving and
intimate gestures are more important to them than big expensive
surprises. Phone calls during the day, lots of hugs and kisses. Holding
her hand at the store and flirting with her makes her feel really
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Pay attention to body language. Women often don’t
say what they really mean. Rather they will express it in body language
or the way they act. Does she say nothing’s on her mind but keep
looking at you? If you pay attention you will learn the way your
girlfriend acts when she wants something from you but doesn’t want to
come out and say it. Try to be attuned to that and let her know you are
there for her.
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Hold onto her heart. Men think that once they’ve
gotten their girlfriend that they don’t need to try that hard anymore.
But to a woman the wooing process shouldn’t stop. she needs to feel
like you are always trying to court and win her.You’ve probably heard
that relationships are a lot of work.
Women are definitely different from men. After all, that’s part of
the reason that you are attracted to them,right? If you can show your
girlfriend how much she means to you by following this advice then when
you get her back she will make you a happy camper too.