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Really, your gonna answer the phone now?


I don't think that it is too much to ask of my husband. I mean he is on the phone all day long talking business and I would just like to have a simple family dinner without the phone interrupting! He says Im making him choose between his wife and child and the rest of his life (whatever the phone call may be about) but it's really not like that. I just want some one on one time with my husband and maybe he could talk to me about his day instead of whoever is on the line. I want him to understand where Im coming from, but to him the issue isnt that important. I want it to be as important to him as it is to me. He thinks family time is any giving moment that we may be together. For example, driving in the car or sitting in front of the TV. I think family time (or one on one romantic) should be special and deserves every persons undivided attention. Am I being to selfish? Is it really too much to ask for him to just ignore the phone and make a few -callbacks- later?


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