Relationship Quiz

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Relationship Quiz

Lila
here~ When you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, things
change.  You settle into each other, getting more comfortable
with each passing year.  But how can you tell if you’re
comfortable, or just comfortably numb?  Is your comfort within
the normal range for long term relationships, or are you ignoring
warning signs that could signal the end is near?

    
Here’s
a quick quiz to see how healthy your relationship is.  Are you
cruising along, or sliding down a slippery slope?  On a scale of
1-5, with 1 being never and 5 being always, rate these statements:

 

 

I
often pick apart the things my partner says

I
often pick apart the way my partner does things

I
feel like he doesn’t understand me

I
feel like he doesn’t try to understand me

I
often edit what I plan to say to him out of fear of his response

I
am usually not myself with him

I
am afraid my partner’s having an affair

I
am having an affair

I
am thinking about having an affair

I
over-eat to numb my feelings

I
drink to numb my feelings

I
spend more time at work to avoid going home