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My boyfriend and I were arguing and he called me a "fucing idiot" numerous times and a "bitch" a couple of times.  I did break up with him and we've been talking and he came by to see me last by my house and I told him I would come over tonight when I'm off work.  I know I'm going to end up taking him back, what are the chances of him doing it again is what I want to know.  I know they're pretty high, but--I really do like him.  We have a kid together. ((Not really, just a kitty that I bought for him not too long ago)). Eh, why did he have to go and fuck this up for us?! ay yi yi!!!!!

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