so um yea

Ok so I am seeing this guy I really like alot... he's not the usual  type of guy I date but he's sweet has an amazing personality not to mention he's a god in well you know.... anyways so we had the most amazing and I do mean mindblowing sex the other night then 2 days later tells me that we need to slow things down... um why? How the hell do you get someone off mutiple times then shut her down I don't understand.... Is this a good thing or a bad?