When you see Carmen Electra, or Megan Fox, do you have to sit their
and ask yourself if you find her attractive? No way! You just... FEEL
IT. Same thing goes when you see a very old, obese woman with a mustache
riding a power wheel chair. Do you have to think to yourself whether or
not you're attracted to her? Do you decide? No way! You just KNOW. You
just FEEL it- or you don't.
Well, women are the SAME way...
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Except a little different.
Just like men, women don't choose to feel attraction, it's either
there, or it isn't. But where it differs from men is that it isn't based
entirely on the physical appearance of men. In fact, it's not based on
our physical appearance almost at all. As long as we're clean, have good
hygiene, and dress decently.
What women look for in men is a desirable character. They look for "different in a good way" or superiority.
They're looking for above average men. Men that "have it together, that are confident, and that know how to create attraction.
Attraction has a very simple formula.
In order to create attraction you need to prove to a woman that
you're confident and secure. And that you DON'T NEED HER TO FEEL LIKE A
Now, there's some pretty damn easy ways to show a woman you're confident and create attraction quickly.
- Tease her.
- Say NO.
- Take the lead.
- Don't let her bad attitudes effect you.
- Have fun.
- Challenge her.
- Don't ever let her know that you're as attracted to her as you really are.
And a million and one more (that we'll go over in future posts).
If you want to turn the attraction off and kill any chances you
had with her than just buy her drinks, tell her how beautiful she is and
don't say anything that might possibly upset her.
If you don't believe what I'm telling you, then do this: Go find 10 guys
that always have beautiful women in their lives, and then watch how
they treat them.
Guess what they won't be doing?
That's right, they won't be doing all the same things MOST guys do.
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Wishing You Success!
-Tristen Ryan Royal