6. Rub Him Everywhere Else Too: "I would seriously love the occasional back rub or any unsolicited massage," said Derek. Yes, his penis is his number one erogenous zone. But don't neglect his less boneriffic parts—a back rub shows you care about him, not just getting him off.
7. Be Open-Minded: "Humor us when we want to try something you think is different or weird," said Tom. "Don't immediately say no and dismiss it. We're boys, we're curious and chances are we'll try it once and lose interest anyways." That's not to say you should give up anal if you absolutely hate it, but if he's interested in playing with handcuffs or role-playing, for example, don't automatically dismiss the idea as him being pervy. The Frisky: Porn Star James Deen On What Makes A Woman 'Good In Bed'
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8. Don't Hold Back: With the exception of being on top, most standard sexual positions put the dude in the driver's seat, in that they're doing all the thrusting—but that is not any excuse for just lying there. "If you want to be on top, get on top," said Paul. "If you want it to be more rough, get rough with us. We don't mind doing the work, but we don't want to be the only ones who put in the effort."
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