Is He Worth A Second Date?


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4 essential questions to help you figure out if he's Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong.

What do you do when you're alone? With your friends?

Dating the life of the party can be fun, but when someone is never alone, more often than not you're dealing with someone who finds safety (from his own thoughts) in numbers. So unless your idea of a romantic evening includes four of his frat brothers, two cousins and assorted hangers-on, you might want to think twice.


Think five or six times if he doesn't have any friends. Believe me, I've been down the dating-the-loner road and it can get a tad scary.

How do you feel about your mother?

The man who hates his mom is obviously one to be avoided. On the flipside of loathing, I'll never forget the date who rhapsodized at great length about his "hot" mother during our first and last outing. According to this person she'd expelled from her uterus, she was the sexiest woman who ever lived. Ick doesn't begin to describe it. The Frisky: Guys Have Insecurities, Just Like Women!

The right answer should be along the lines of "I love her, but she can drive me crazy."

I agree that getting answers to these four questions will help you weed out the creeps and the freaks, but I'm not so sure that they're all you need to know about a person before you get naked and sweaty with them. What are some questions you'd ask prospective partners?

Written by Judy McGuire for The Frisky.

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