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6 Ways Couples Can Rediscover Erotic Sex

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For some couples tender intimacy precludes passionate, erotic sex. How to rediscover lust.

3. Moisture is very sensual and sexy, so take a pump bottle of body lotion and drizzle it over your partner. Of course, this is best done standing in the shower so that you can watch the liquid drip down over the hills and valleys. Then, rub the lotion into your partner's skin with every part of your body except your hands! This is both sensual and playful and can lead to a passion-fest, if you let it.

4. Try some naked play in the tub or shower. Splash each other, build shampoo foam hats on each other's heads, and engage in general silliness. If it doesn't lead to lovemaking, don't worry. You're still connecting with each other in a great way.

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5. Have a food fight! If you can't stand the mess, put some plastic on the floor first. Take off your clothes, and gather some sensual foods like strawberries and melted chocolate. Dip the strawberries, and feed them to each other. Draw or write on your partner's body with fingers covered in chocolate or fruit sauce, and ask your partner to guess what you drew or wrote. Then, lick the sweet stuff off your partner's skin. If you want to throw food or spray whipped cream at each other, feel free!

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6. Teasing is a great way to build that delicious feeling of lust, and it can also give way to a wonderful laugh-fest. Take off your clothes, and lie down or stand together. Walk around your partner running your hands slowly just above his or her skin. Start with the face and neck and work your way down. Occasionally allow your breath to tickle your partner's skin as well. Do this until you're breathing heavily and can't wait to make love.