I believe, by nature, that we're sexy and spiritual, loving and lusty, naughty and caring creatures, and these qualities are not exclusive of one another or even necessarily adversarial. Even as we struggle with our tangle of issues, we can celebrate our sexual experience. We can look at it less as a problem than as an adventure. And if you're lucky enough to have a loving partner who is willing to walk through the new and uncomfortable territory with you, it can be an adventure that brings you closer together in a number of surprising ways.
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