If there is a mis-match- it’s a critical situation, because
one person will always feel insecure, pursuing the other for signs of love.
While the other partner is constantly retreating to a safe distance, feeling
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Don’t ignore this pivotal sign, because it’s not going to
2. Are you
comfortable being totally yourself around your partner?
After a few months, it’s time to let your hair down and let
your partner see your less than pretty side. Do they still accept you, even
with your demons out of the closet? Are they able to love the whole package of you?
Or, instead do you feel the need to hide certain pieces of
yourself, or change to meet their standards? If so, it’s time to bail- because
you are a gift, just the way you are.
3. Do you feel like
part of a team- like together, you could handle anything?
Great partners develop a strong sense of partnership, where
you feel like you do most things better together! There’s a trusting feeling of
“I’ve got your back.” Plus, you easily bring out the best in each other, so
really, you are better together.
If you too easily to slip onto opposing teams, quickly get
defensive with each other, or argue over even little things that require
cooperation, it’s a sign that you don’t naturally play well together- something
every bond needs to thrive over time.
So, the next time you find yourself falling head over heels,
put the brakes on long enough to examine your deep, underlying compatibility.
If you assess how right you really are for each other, before you’ve professed your undying love, you’ll stay on track to
finding true love in record time!
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