My Guy Is Shy, Should I Make The First Move?


How to make a move without compromising your values.

Andrea Syrtash, author of He's Just Not Your Type And That's A Good Thing, answers a question from Ask YourTango, where readers seek out advice on love and relationships. In this segment, Andrea helps a woman who wants to make a move on a shy guy, but is worried about compromising her traditional values. The answer? You can send positive signals without completely changing your personality. 5 Shy-Guy Pick-Up Moves

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