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I just cant tell anymore


I want to be like I was 8 months ago. I was very spontanious in bed and willing to do anything that was new. However lately since I've gain weight I just dont feel that attractive anymore. I try to do everything I can to make myself feel like I'm somethin but whenever I look down all i see is this very unattractive gut. My man tells me not to worry about it he doesnt care if I have a gut or not but the thing is... I do.
We are getting married in about a year and I dont want to keep gaining weight. I want to be able to look attractive so that when I put on that dress he'll want to knock out every guy in the room. I dont know just what to do anymore.


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