I have recently discovered that I am totally obsessed with learning all I can about sex! How to please my partner. What tricks work best. How to let go&be free. How to be the best lover I can be. I am not sure why I have a new curiosity in becoming the best I can be. I am intrigued to learn all I can & I want to try new experiences so I know where my limits are. Is this natural? Am I going through a phase in life that all women go through in there thirties? Does anyone have anybody inparticular that they think I should read up on?