Lisa Steadman teaches us how to embrace change in order to find love.
Last night marked the second telechat in our four-week, Girls' Night In teleseries (the first featured Lori Gottlieb, author of Marry Him, and set the tone for a month filled with fabulous, free love advice). Our guest of honor was Lisa Steadman, the author of If He's Not the One, Who Is? and It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown and, after kicking back with glasses of wine, our phones glued to our ears, we settled in to learn about how to manifest Mr. Right. Do You Need A Dating Makeover?
As per usual, Dating Makeover Coach Kira Sabin, and our own Melanie Gorman, led the love discussion down some interesting paths, and there was some great discussion happening on Twitter as well, among those interacting with our YourTango and Love Buzz accounts. The number one buzzword of the evening? Change.
Lisa Steadman kicked things off by explaining that her latest book is the road map she didn't have when she was looking to change her dating behavior and find Mr. Right. She explained that most women, feeling burnt out on dating, need to be open to change in order to change their results. After all, as you look back on bad relationship after bad relationship, what's the common denominator? You. Unfortunately, we generally don't change until it becomes harder not to. 3 Ways To Change Your Bad Dating Attitude