Over the top profile pics.

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Over the top profile pics.

As for
men, some of those profile pictures look like the photo ops for politicians.
Let’s be frank, politicians aren’t exactly known to be genuine or nice guys. A
picture of you holding a new born baby is trying way too hard. Pictures with
your pets are fine but litters of puppies and kittens?  It’s a little much.

 

When a
woman sees a man trying too hard to show he’s nice, she ends up thinking one of
two things 1) he can’t get a woman which is why he’s trying so hard 2) he’s a
phony and probably a player who’s trying all the tricks.   Neither message is attractive.

 

Instead,
be yourself. Take a warm welcoming picture without all of the “over the top”
additions. Just be natural and have balance. Don’t post anything that can be
construed as contrived.

 

I know
there’s a lot of competition out there and I’m the first to say compete with
every tool you have. However, if you’re looking for long-term that means your
primary objective (as we say in advertising) is to find love.

 

So
seriously consider what love means: friendship, dedication, kindness, substance
and other qualities that win and keep hearts. Also consider your ideal target
(another ad term which, in essence, means your ideal match). Then try to find
the appropriate bridge that will bring you and that person together to meet
your objective.

 

Or,
forget all that and just hire me to help with your online dating profile.

 

For more
tips and advice, listen to the podcasts and read the blogs and samples at http://trysweettalk.com

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