For a long time, Essman didn't think she was marriage material. Now the Curb Your Enthusiasm star, 53, is wife to real-estate broker Harder, 51, and stepmother to his four children. "I never had any interest in getting married or having kids. I was always having fun and enjoying my career, and now here I am, in the middle of this big, wonderful family, and my whole life has turned around."
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