It seems like we are always dealing with emotional upset in our relationship behind something that has been said or done or not said or done. I feel like the only time that I please him is when we are having sex. He says he doesn't want to give up on us and neither do I. I often feel like this relationship is emotionally draining and is a lot of work. I don't understand why or what to do about it. I don't want to lose him and at the same time I always feel like I am on eggshells when we are together abd I don't want that either.