ONLINE DATERS SUCCESS HABITS

I dabbled in internet dating in 2000, paying my monthly dues to the cyber service as I weaved in and out of the system. I'd pop in to see who was new, make a few dates and then if nothing happened quickly, I'd run to my comfort zone of offline dating. But, when my heart was broken in the "real" world, I'd reconnect to the internet and begin the process again.

 

I'd hear countless stories about people meeting online and marrying; it just never happened to me. After six years of email exchanges, hundreds of dates and trips to California, Chicago and DC to meet people, I decided that if I was looking for someone serious, I'd better make a commitment too.

So, I changed my approach and opened my mind to dating people who I would have earlier discounted. Within weeks, I found myself in love, engaged and planning a wedding. I learned that adopting a few healthy habits can change your dating experience. As the New Year rings in, make a resolution to change old patterns. Following are seven habits taken from successful online daters who have found love online.

1. Refresh, Refresh, Refresh
Refresh your profile and photos. Keeping current is important. It says that you're active and serious about showing people who you are and what you have to offer. Did your family recently visit you during the holidays? Post the photos of you by the Christmas tree or Menorah, with your children or grandchildren. Leading a full life is attractive.

2. Decide on Deal Breakers