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Question for men...

Question for men...

Why is it so difficult for men to soley concentrate on their partner?

After being in a relationship with a wonderful man for the past year and a half, i realize though we have been through a lot and i have seen him try his hardest to give me what i want...i cant seem to figure out why work is such a priority. At times I believe love should be about this undying passion and constant feeling of being around the person you are with, but I can't get this from my partner.

I can pick out good traits and bad in him, as for any man. i try to be understanding by leaving him to work and not calling so much and allowing him to do his job,but why is it when he  focused i cant get a text or even a call?
...not even a "HEY DOG HOW YOU DOING?"



Expert advice

Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
It seems like you can't do anything right.

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