I have 5 kids 4 daughters 1son...so far he doesnt' seem to mind he has not met them...but he is single has made a great living for himself...not sure what he would really see in me that be worth the time yet he still calls and wants to hang out...i'm recently seperated and working on divorce definitly done with my marriage but dont feel I have anything to bring to the table as far as a girlfriend friend or long term relationship....