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How to get to know a girl without being called a creeper?

I’m in college and there is a girl I would love to get to know better, don’t know her romantic situation, and we have no common activities or classes together save for the fact that she lives in the same building on the other side. We had one small chat before and I was thinking of just dropping by to her room and talking to her again, but I don't want to seem like a creep.

What do you both think? How should I start the conversation? I assume no pretense, but what do I know. If it's too forward, I would appreciate any other constructive suggestions.

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