Soo.. my boyfriend got "divorced" right before we started dating. We've been in a relationship for a little over 3 months now and I've recently found out 1.) he stopped talking to his ex 3 weeks before we began dating and 2.) his divorce isn't even finalized. I don't know how to handle it! On top of that, he swears he doesn't talk to her anymore and he loves me and wants to be with me, but he still keeps his pictures of his ex around.. there are even pictures of her on his facebook. I don't know what to make of any of this.. I want to believe him.. but it hurts seeing all the pictures and just knowing that they're there, even if they are not displayed. He tells me that I have to learn to accept his past before we can really make our relationship work, but how can I accept it if I am constantly reminded of it AND the divorce isn't finalized? He constantly tells me that he's with me and wants to be with me.. but I don't know if that's enough reassurance.. Any advice? question, comments.. some insight other than my own.