9. He lives with his parents. If he's there because he loves mom's cooking and doesn't like doing his own laundry, we have a problem. If he's there because he's saving money or is between apartments or is caring for an aging parent, you can't fault him for that. And at least you know the situation is (hopefully) temporary. If he shows signs of ambition, cut him some slack. Besides, we bet his mom makes a mean veggie casserole. 6 Reasons To Date A Guy Who Lives With His Parents
10. His BFF is a lady. And they used to date. Or at least you suspect they did. Look: if his best bud is of the female persuasion—whether or not they were romantically involved in the past—you shouldn't automatically assume that they're holding on to a secret love for each other. Besides, he appears to be interested in you. If he's sneaking around in order to hang out with her, then there might be some cause for concern. But otherwise, you should trust him. And, of course, suggest that the three of you hang out together.
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