She should be slender, sweet, domestic, angelic, attentive and simple, and of course, she will also be active, creative, involved, professional, sexy, sultry, naughty and independent. That she is powerful, helpful and demure all at once. In most real life cases this is not all found in the same person. Funny thing is, women still get accused of being overly emotional and moody. I guess we're doing it wrong. Not that a guy won't settle for less, but why should real be settling?