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Am I wasting my time?


I met this guy online 3 months ago but have only been able to see him 3 times, really great, good father, single. The rest of his family, mom, brothers, grandfather, all adults... are very demanding with his time and my time with him is very limited. I understand really, but lately, he barely even calls me and when he emails me its all about what he has to do for his family, nothing personal about "us". Am I wasting my time waiting to date this guy? what if its another 3 months before I can see him on a regular basis? He tellsme he'll make it up to me and that I'm a "keeper", but maybe he isn't?


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