Advice: We Have Less Sex Than We Used To


How to increase the frequency.

Have you noticed a decline in the amount of sex between you and your partner? Has marriage caused your love life to cool down? Don’t worry! You aren’t alone. 

Couples and family therapist Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity, offers her advice on waning sex lives. Having sex less frequently doesn’t have to mean a decrease in passion. “Passion ebbs and flows,” Perel explains. There is a difference between frequency in sex and intensity of sex – do you have anything to worry about?

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