Tips and tricks you can pick up by enrolling in a flirting school.
Hmm, most of this advice is so obvious — look like you're enjoying yourself, really? — that you would assume the only women who actually need to hear it are the ones who live in the proverbial attic with 17 cats. But sadly, if this academy exists, it probably means there is a market for it.
Written by Jessica Wakeman for The Frisky
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If you've been to bars in major metropolitan cities, chances are you've come into contact with a "pickup artist": a dude who is trying to get your number by following a script. Whether he learned about pickup artistry from Neil Strauss's book The Game or that VH1 show, The Pickup Artist, the guy macking on you is focused on one goal—getting women, including you, into bed. The Frisky: 15 Things A Woman Notices About A Guy
But the opposite is not true in a "pickup artist school" for women: in fact, London's Flirt Diva Academy focuses mainly on flirting. According to "flirt coach" Sue Ostler, flirtation is "lighting the spark to your personality and letting people see it shine through" and her Flirt Diva Academy services women ages 16 to 60 in classes like "Bag A Boyfriend" and the "Flirt Masterclass." Or they can partake in a "Flirt, Schmooze & Shimmy" tour to hone their technique in the field at London's hottest bars. The Frisky: Are You One Of These "Not Hot" Women?
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- Look like you are enjoying yourself.
- Make note of your surroundings so you can comment on interesting-looking cocktails or the music.
- Make eye contact, hold it for five seconds and maybe even smile or wink.
- Lean inwards while you chat.
- Use the "AEIOU" theory: Ask a lot of questions, use your Ears to listen, show your personality by using "I" statements, be animated like saying "Oh, my God!" and make the person you (U) are talking to the focus of your conversation. The Frisky: MERRIMe, A New Web Comedy About Online Dating