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Is Steamy Text Messaging The New Foreplay?

10 reasons why doing it via technology can enhance the real thing.

My cell phone is more broke than I am. Over the weekend, I got a case of the butterfingers and dropped it again—now it won't text. Wah! Is it trying to ruin my social/sex life? Without the ability to sext, my game is weak! I know a few dudes are missing my steamy messages. Before you judge typing with one hand, here's why you shouldn't knock it till you've tried it! The Frisky: Top 10 Sexting Acronyms For Adults

1.    You have to use your imagination. And girl, you just don't know what dirty things he's really thinking until you have sexy times from afar.

2.    You get to explore every aspect of a fantasy. It's like getting bonus time for foreplay. The Frisky: Safe Sex: Coming To A Cell Phone Near You!

3.    It doesn't increase your sex partner "number."

4.    Your brain is your biggest erogenous zone. Doing it via technology is basically the "Jeopardy" of sexy times. Even if you don't win/totally get off, you do feel a sense of satisfaction for playing.  The Frisky: 6 Sex Slang Words To Make You A More Cunning Linguist

5.    There are no risks involved. You can't get pregnant or an STD.

6.    When you finally do see each other, you already know what the other wants and can't wait to give it, naked. The Frisky: MERRIME, A New Web Comedy About Online Dating
 

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burgandy Single single, young, confused, looking
Can Relate - Posted 3 weeks ago

I'm pretty sure it is becoming the new foreplay, because it is fun!

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted January 25, 2010

I hope so, it sounds fun.

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