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4 Steps To Finding Love

Looking for "the one"? Date three! Dr. Diana Kirschner's innovative dating advice.

Psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Diana Kirschner offers tips for finding true love. Her new book, Love in 90 Days, helps singles change their approach to dating and meeting "the one." Here, she shares four essential steps to meeting your match.

 

 

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Dia Single and lovin it
Posted January 2, 2010

i love when she says if its meant to happen itll happen, if im supossed 2 be fit it will happen, thats so true we need to take action, ill use this when i feel like hunting

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Voli23 Single open heart open mind
Can Relate - Posted September 9, 2009

I really like this approach! It can be done... I feel that if if ONE of the steps is skipped or misunderstood, it can go downhill fast. Eh, gotta read the book, I suppose. :)

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BigAl Taken
Posted May 1, 2009

it's so true that to find love you need to put yourself out there. just show everyone who your fabulous self is and you're bound to meet the right one soon enough!

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miss_mimi19 Single is looking for love
Posted April 28, 2009

although the advice is solid, im not sure about the whole 3 guys at the same time deal....

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denial5261 Single complicated fool..
Posted January 30, 2009

love is mysterious and finding someone to spend the rest of your life with is even a msytery itself.. nobody is perfect and everyone has its own past to deal with.. its a matter of compromise...

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Posted January 27, 2009

no i think thats stupid but that my opigion.

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Posted January 19, 2009

I'm picky with my men. I'll date three guys at the same time LOL. My last relationship did work out with no effort and I hope to re do that whole thing again with the same guy.

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Posted January 20, 2009

If it "worked out" what do you mean by "re-doing the whole thing again with the same guy"...? I'm confused.

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Posted January 21, 2009

It worked out in the past and I would re-do the whole relationship and some of the events with the same guy.

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Posted January 18, 2009

what would happen if you fell for more than one of those 3 guys?

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Posted January 18, 2009

some of those dating site are prejudgice. They don't have gay dating choices. Don't promote hatred by promoting online dating sites that are homophobic. Thanx!

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Posted January 16, 2009

If it's meant to happen it will happen?...
how about,
Is my baby going to be a boy or a girl?
Am I going to loose my hair?
Is the Chineese kitchen open tonight?
Is my dog coming back?
Is it going to frost on my vegie garden this year?...
sorry ladies but this is non-sense...
Join a dating site? that's expensive advice.
Read my book... how to not find love in 10 years...even if there's nothing wrong with you.... reality sux

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Posted January 15, 2009

I don't have the time for 3 guys in my life!!

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Posted January 16, 2009

C'mon...Where are your priorities?? haha jk ;-)
I know life can be busy, but you reap what you sow, my friend :-)

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Alex Complicated No nonsense about love!
Posted January 15, 2009

I love this advice. I'm definitely going to pass the video along to my friends who want relationships.

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Posted January 15, 2009

Thanks that was really good info.

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Posted January 15, 2009

well i've been dating my bf for almost a year now & it pretty much snuck up on me :)

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Posted January 15, 2009

over 5 years i've no love..

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Posted January 15, 2009

If I knew someone was already seeing 2 other guys at the SAME time, ... what kind of person IS that? No thanks.

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Posted January 14, 2009

Love in 90 days, or your money back? Is there a guarantee on this?

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Posted January 14, 2009

lol i never read this book.. but i swear i did the same thing.. and now i'm in love and soon to be married ..i created a new me went online..and broke old habits and it worked.

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Posted January 14, 2009

great advice..i'll try it!

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Posted January 14, 2009

i like the handwriting in this video (:
hahaha

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Posted January 14, 2009

haha this is great and soo true... the first two..

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Posted January 14, 2009

haha this video is hilarius

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