Every day, brave people like you are asking tough questions in the Ask YourTango forum. Because you bared your souls with complete openness and honesty, you've helped us all make our own relationships a little better. Here are our top 10 favorite questions of 2009:
i have been with a man for a year been living together for six months he gets e mail from on line dating sites girls "offering" their all...he say he has been on those sites for a long time i think he should cancel and bow out of those "match maker hot date" sites
I am madly in love with my ex boyfriend but he has substance abuse issues, has broken my things, and hit me once in the past. Is there any hope that he can change and we can have a normal loving relationship?
A couple weeks after my husband and I got married, my mother-in-law made the comment that she didn't know why her son would marry me... she has since told me that I would make a horrible mother and should not have children. She also makes it a point to tell me that I don't save my money properly, and that I don't take care of the house the way that I should... I'm confused because before my husband proposed to me, my mother-in-law would confide in me and we would talk and spend quality time with one another. I now dread going to my in laws because I never know what horrible thing is going to come out of her mouth next! My husband tells me that it's just the way she is that I need to ignore her, but her comments hurt and I don't know how to ignore her without getting upset... any help on how to deal with her would be great, it is starting to put stress on my marriage and I really don't want to go down that path!
I've been dating this guy for 2 yrs now. He says he loves me&he's trying to leave his wife but can't because his daughter is living with them&has kids. He's afraid his wife will [do] something stupid.